Will I Regret Not Getting Newborn Photos?

What I Wish I Knew Before My Boys’ Newborn Photos—And How It Changed My Approach

My boys are 19 and 16 now, and when they were born, newborn photos just weren’t what they are today. There were no search engines to help me find a “newborn photographer near me,” no prep guides to walk me through what to expect—and no social media to inspire or reassure me when I wondered, “Will I regret not getting newborn photos?”

With my oldest, I found a photographer through my OBGYN’s office. The sitting fee was free, so I figured—why not? What I didn’t know was that pricing wasn’t shared until our ordering appointment weeks later. When I saw the cost of an 8×10 print, I was devastated. We couldn’t afford it. I left without purchasing a single photo.

When my second son was born, I waited a month to schedule his newborn photos. I thought I’d feel better after losing some of the baby weight. But by the time we arrived for his session, he was too alert for the curled-up, sleepy images I had in mind. I missed that window without even realizing it.

Both of these experiences have stayed with me—and they’ve guided how I built my own newborn photography business. As a Nashville newborn photographer, I prioritize clear communication, thoughtful preparation, and delivering timeless images families will cherish forever.

Will I Regret Not Getting Newborn Photos?

Here’s what I’ve learned after 15 years of photographing babies: You’ll never regret the photos you did take. It’s often the ones you don’t that leave a lasting ache.

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard this from moms: “We skipped newborn photos, and now I really wish we hadn’t.”

Life after birth can feel like a blur. You’re recovering, learning your baby, and adjusting to a new rhythm—so it’s easy for photos to fall down the priority list. I’ve been there myself.

Why Parents May Delay or Skip Newborn Photos

You’re overwhelmed. Recovery, emotions, and caring for a newborn (and possibly other children) can feel like a lot.

You want to feel like yourself again. Many moms wait until they feel more rested or confident in front of the camera.

You didn’t know when to schedule. Without planning ahead, it’s easy to miss the ideal window.

You thought phone photos would be enough. While convenient, they can’t replace professional lighting, posing, and artistry.

You were worried about the budget. Newborn photography is an investment—but one that becomes more meaningful with time.

One of the best parts of working with Shannon Payne Photography is the simplicity: you only need to bring your baby. Everything else is thoughtfully provided to create a calm, stress-free experience.

Is It Worth Getting a Newborn Photoshoot?

Absolutely. Here are a few common regrets I hear from parents:

• “I thought I’d remember how tiny they were—but I’ve already forgotten.”
• “I wish I had just one beautiful photo of us as a family in those early days.”
• “They changed so fast—I didn’t expect that.”

Choosing the right photographer matters. Newborn photography requires experience, patience, and a trained eye to safely and beautifully capture these early moments.

View my newborn portfolio to see my style.

What If I Missed the Newborn Window?

The ideal window is 8–21 days, but beautiful images are still possible beyond that. I photograph babies up to 8 weeks old and older.

As babies grow, they stretch out, become more alert, and may develop temporary skin changes. This simply shifts the style of the session—often toward more wrapped or awake images.

If you’ve missed the newborn stage, milestone sessions are a perfect next step—like tummy time (around 4 months) or sitter sessions (6–8 months).

Why Professional Newborn Photos Are Worth the Investment

Years from now, you won’t remember the sleepless nights—but you will treasure the images of your baby’s earliest days.

If you’re unsure, reach out. I’ll guide you through the process and make it simple, relaxed, and meaningful.

I am so glad we had Shannon do our newborn photos! She was nice, professional, and had a quick return. We are thrilled with our pictures and would recommend her to anyone!

—Bri M., Nashville, TN

Frequently Asked Questions About Newborn Photography

When is the best time to schedule newborn photos?

Between 8 and 21 days after birth is ideal, though sessions up to 8 weeks still produce beautiful results.

How soon should I book?

During your second trimester is best to ensure availability.

What should we wear?

Neutral tones like whites and creams photograph best. I also offer wardrobe guidance.

Can siblings join?

Yes—family images are always encouraged.

What if I missed the window?

Milestone sessions at 4–8 months are a great alternative.

How much does it cost?

Sessions begin at $850. View full pricing details.

Book Your Nashville Newborn Photography Session

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